I need help. I was in a prior relationship where my partner was constantly on me for sex and I didn't want it. I know now that it was bc I was falling out of love with him. I am now in a relationship where my sex drive is way stronger than my partner. He is 12 years older than me so often wonder if it is an age thing - 50. I have expressed my concern and he is receptive but things don't really change. We have gotten into a pattern where it seems to be Sunday sex day. But I want it more often. I love and respect him and I know he loves me but says that he has reached a point where he values our relationship more than sex. Ironically that is what I used to say to my X. The thing is everything else is pretty much perfect with us. So I can't figure out if it is my insecurity that needs more than 1X a week (I am sure there are tons of people out there that would be excited if that could get it that often from their partner) or if it is something deeper.
I have a pattern of pushing people away. Wish I could see through this and determine if I am "laying those bricks" again.