Healthy Sex Support Group
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This is meant as an adjunct to the "kids & sex" post.
Does anyone here have children younger than 13 who have engaged in sexual intercourse and girls who have gotten pregnant as a result? If so, how did you handle it?
Does anyone here have children younger than 13 who have engaged in sexual intercourse and girls who have gotten pregnant as a result? If so, how did you handle it?
this is a disturbing
a. just curious
b. he's a sociologist
c. is helping a sociologist
Oh, well, somebody post something THEY would like to talk about.
Merely trying to be original here.
Was posting this as a hypothetical, as foggy as "anal" or anything anyone else posts.
SOME of you people really suck. If anyone else wants to answer this logically, great. The rest of you are a bit touchy today (that time of the month, I guess).
Did any one consider that Koolman might just be dating someone or has a friend with a child of this age who has a serious concern...???? You all went directly to hes doing something wrong as opposed to trying to help someone...
AND as opposed to giving him SHIT about this should we not be supporting our friend???
That being said...I am my nieces confidant. She started to have sex when she was very young...she told me and my first reaction was to work with her on protecting herself from pregnancy. That was a challenge because have mercy on a woman who is trying to get a girl to take the birth control pill...one of the after affects is weight gain...So we went with the patch. STD's were a whole other issue. This is why we need to talk to our children starting from a VERY early age.
Listen, my x husband's first experience with intercourse and orgasm was at the age of ELEVEN....!!!
Second concern is ACTUAL pregnancy...Yes, I have had experience with this within my own family and with other women that I have known.
If pregnancy at this age has happened...100% of the people that I know that this has happened to (I went to an all womans college and teen pregnancy is really PREVALANT)..had abortions.
I dont want a whole thread about people choices ...I am just telling Kool what I know.
A childs future is at stake. Abortion is only ONE way to handle a pregnancy...but it is (fortunatly) an option...and the option that ALL of the people that I know chose...
I am dreadfully sorry if this upsets anyone. It is the information that I have and I am sharing it. It is not meant to cause a ranting thread...
I have 3 daughters.One is a baby so I dont worry about her.The middle one is 9 so I dont worry about her -yet..The oldest is 17 1/2 and I know she is having sex.I found out by reading her stuff.(I know shame on me for giving her no privacy).I told her to talk to me about everything and anything and she did..I couldnt stop her.I cant lock her up or chain her down so it was best to let her know everything she needed to know.She has cysts on her ovaries so she was put on the pill.I hated knowing that she was doing it but teenagers are curious and not everyone will wait until they are of age or married.I was 17 when I got pregnant for her..If she were to get pregnant then I would be there for her.i wouldnt be happy but I would love her the same and the baby and make her take responsibility...
There is a small blessing in that she is taking the pill...it helps with some of the issues revolved around sex...