I was lucky enough to experience this myself, slightly different circumstances, the trick is to just treat it as the physical act, nothing more, you have to trust your BF, but it will also show his real colors, if he is likely to drop you for another, maybe as well if you knew from the get go, than to find it out later on when you may be comitted, its a bit of a risk but one worth taking I would say

Be careful think how will you feel afterwards will you be ok if he then wants it on the reg? Will you start to get jealous will you wonder if he is still interested in you?

Will this affect your relationship long term as you can’t turn back

no your not crazy to consider it. I have the desire to have a 3 some or 4 some but my husband isn't into that. It could be a lot of fun! Your boyfriend is lucky to have you that you would try this to please him. Yes it is true it could cause problems emotionally if it doesn't go the way you plan. But sex with a woman is great! I use to live a completely heterosexual life until I tried being with a woman one day. I found out after that that I am actually bisexual. We are designed to recieve pleasure from anyone that touches us in a sexual way. Some people are surprised to find out that they actually enjoy sex with someone of the same sex. You can always message me if you have more questions or want to talk.

thank you I may just message you as I do have many questions lmao! I am pretty confident that there will not be to many emotional issues. He is one of those people that an just have sex with no attachment. Also he has agreed to have intercourse with only myself to see if I feel comfortable.

I think will be great and you gonna enjoy it a lot . Believe me. You are not crazy. Go for it. A lot of us wish to be in your place and have this opportunity.

When I'm really in love with a woman, the idea of another man and his sausage entering the picture is SOOOO unappealing, but women are smooth, beautiful, with less body hair, scintillating, titillating...the phermones would be incredible with 2 or more girls. I'd feel weird at first, but could push through the weirdness very quickly.

oh ya I could not I repeat not sleep with 2 men. to have 2 penis's inside of me mixing juices is soooooooooo nasty lol. but I do agree that 2 woman and a man seems very sensual as long as everyone knows there role and are ok with that.

i have had sex with my boyfriend and his best friend (a guy) and with my best friend (gal) and boyfriend many times. it is exciting and throws a little twist into our normal one on one daily sex sessions. i would not a agree to do it with a stranger and my boyfriend.

I have been involved in this, and it works if you can be completely honest about feeling after, and so can he.

I would recommend participating in the 3some ONLY if you desire to be intimate with a female and if you have no reservations.

You state that you don't "generally desire it" and the fact that you posted here indicate to me that this is probably not a good idea.

I understand that you want to keep your BF happy, but does have no have an obligation to keep you happy also? Will having 3some make you happy or will it create issues for you? Are you comfortable at the thought of your BF making love to another woman? And if you won't allow your BF to be intimate with the other woman, are you comfortable "performing" for your BF with another woman?

Because if you don't really have a desire for intimacy with another woman, you are essentially putting on a little show at your BF's request.

Another consideration - how willing is your BF to indulge your little fantasies, especially those he doesn't generally desire to engage in?

Sounds like your still unsure about the 3some. At this point I wouldn't recommend it. I feel like you're being pressured into this which isn't a good approach and won't end well.