I have not masturbated in a very very long time. It's probably been about 4-5 years. I just don't have the desire to have sex or to feel that way most of the time.

When I used to masturbate, the guy I was in a relationship with got really offended that I needed someone other than him to turn me on. He considered it cheating and disrespectful. In a way, I get his point of view. In my current relationship, I don't mind of my boyfriend does it to porn. For the most part, the main reason I don't mind is because I am rarely ever in the mood and I know he wants to be satisfied. I don't want to know what he watches- it just makes me mad to see something other than me that turns him on, so I try to bury my head in the sand about it. It's not talked about, he hides his movies and magazines for a time when I'm not around.

My husband likes that I do it especially if he gets to watch (or help)....if he isn't there I have already taken pictures and emailed them to him at work for a mid day surprise. Makes for some fun when he gets home that way too. There are just times that it needs to be done and that is what the toy drawer is for.....

Yes, often. My partner knows. Sometimes we talk about it. Sometimes we watch each other. I used to do it on the sly in my first marriage. At that time my wife and I weren't all that sexually compatible and so I just had to take matters into my own hand so to speak.

thanks for yall replies.I was just wondering because my husband NEVER does it.He did when he was single but now that we are together he says he doesnt have to.We have sex alot but sometimes I still do it.He has no idea.I feel guilty.Is that normal or am I some sort of sex freak?

my husband likes it when i do it. maybe you should let him watch. if you two are very sexually active he may enjoy the experience as something new.

Also doing it while you are having sex is good too! There are lots options to explore with it.

One good thing is if I dont finish while we are having sex, he will finish me off...

Oh sure I masturbate. So does he! In fact, we even incorporate it into our sex life. We know about it and we talk about it and we both feel secure about it. I masturbate about once a week, i think. Maybe less. Not sure...He masturbates about every day.

Watching a woman masturbate is scortching for me...
In my marriage I would masturbate almost daily and my partner knew.
She never masterbated-

Normal. Totally normal to masturbate, whether you are in a relationship or not, whether you are alone or together. It turns me on to know that my partner masturbates when she's alone. In fact, I'd feel awkward if she told me that she didn't.

I masturbate in front of him. He loves watching me and I love watching him. I also masturbate by myself when I feel "it" and he is not around.

Masturbating with your partner is the best. I don't like to be alone, I like to be watched! It lead into other things....

Any women out there who, like my stbx, DON'T masturbate and/or never have?

We enjoy doing that together .. watching each other .. another great form of intimacy .. yeah .. we both do .. as we are not always on the same page .. and that's ok too ..

I don't believe we ever have need to say .. this is not right .. between a loving couple .. unless we are talking about bringing a stranger into the mix ..

Whatever two lovers do .. that they both find enjoyable .. should be kewl .. with both of them .. from my perspective ..

I am a woman who DOESN'T masturbate. Why do you ask?