Make her a cup of tea or glass of wine whatever she likes...Go fill her a hot bubble bath, light some candles, turn on some music. Let her take a bath and you help to wash her and dry her off. (Put a towel in the dryer so you can dry her off with a warm towel.) Then give her a nice massage with lotion and I bet by then she will be feeling frisky. lol Just go slow...little kisses, play with her hair...just make her feel special.

Good luck!! Let us know how it goes.

Try asking her. Communication is a very good thing and something you should work to improve and perfect if you are going to marry this woman.

Ask her what she does and doesn't like. Tell her what you do and don't like and then figure it out from there. Asking strangers who don't know her really isn't going to do you much good since what turns one person on may be a turn off for another.

Mmmmm I like Lisa'a answer- the man doing this sound's like god's gift to a woman after coming home from work !!
I would really can't add anything better here other than just help her to relax, unwind, maybe share a shower together, and just hold her- give her a hug or a massage without any expectations, once she's relaxed and enjoying being close I agree, she'll likely be into it in no time :-)