Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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dyinginside35 09/30/2017

is it ok for a woman to buy sexy lingerie for herself even though she wishes she could wear it for someone else?

yorman1 09/30/2017

Absolutely!!!!! It should make you feel sexy.....and that is a good thing...Most woman I know do just that....They do it because it makes them feel good....

Artchick 09/30/2017

I recently watched a movie where the woman did this quite often and it got me thinking about it to. Maybe it would give me more confidence if I felt sexier even if no one else ever saw it! It's an idea! I love it!

dyinginside35 09/30/2017

Yeah thats what ive been thinking. Plus it would give me a chance to get used to showing my breasts i normally want to hide them. Possibly help me with confidence down the road

Artchick 09/30/2017

I'm a art teacher so i wear tshirt and jeans everyday...hard to feel sexy...but maybe on the rare occasion I go out it would be nice.

gregsbaby 09/30/2017

Yep! I love Victoria's Secret!!

veggiequeen 09/30/2017

I was self conscious and ashamed of my body forever. I have just recently come to accept me just as I am. I may not be a 25 yr old size 6, but I do have my hips and curves (They're just not quite as strategically placed.....or generous.... as I would like. lol)

I did get myself a few things and just trying them on and wearing them does make you feel good....and sexy.... (You would be amazed how you may feel a bit more confident and desirable simply because you're hiding a sexy black lace panty and underwire under those dreary work clothes.)
I was always disappointed because Victoria's Secret never sold anything in a large size (telling me we were not allowed to look or feel sexy at our size) HIPS AND CURVES has large and plus size lingerie, lotions, gels..... The good thing is, there are all styles and types of things to choose from. Different styles will accentuate your good points.....making you feel even more confident.

Pollytilt 10/06/2017

When I was younger I felt the same way. Then I look back at pics and think, I wasn't half bad and wish I would've known it then. Men love boobs, butts, and more, they don't see the imperfections that we see. Buy a few different pieces, one for just you, even if its just a sexy matching bra and panty set. I say have a drink, if you do drink, put on that lingerie and let yourself shine. Enjoy being you as you are.

Emerald0743 10/11/2017

I think Lingerie is for women because when we feel good and sexy we radiate that confidence and thats why partners like it so much. so yeah buy it for yourself wear it and work it you fox I think I like the Idea and might do it too

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