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I have an embarrassing question

ThisToo
ThisToo

I just got done saying in my lube post how I have a history of getting really self lubed /wet.


Now it depends but usually , I do.  Another thing that has happened  in the past with my late husband , and now with my current guy (though now it is nearly every time) is getting air in my Lady Parts.


It has been so many years since I have been in the know with all things sex....like I used to know the nickname for this thing that happens, I can't recall any of it, now.


but i think I heard long ago it is dangerous for the woman (besides uncomfortable) I think I heard long ago it could kill  you.. is this true ?


what causes it?  is it because I am so wet in there, or he is so huge ?


it does happen when I am really really into it......and him too.


how unfair.  Because I can tell he at least knows enough that he will stop and then when we try to start again he tries to avoid it happening.


But dang !  Just bad timing, you know?  any advice appreciated.


lostsoul72
lostsoul72
It actually happens a lot and some positions can cause it more than others. Hard fast pounding in doggie style is a good way to get Air trapped in there and then when it is expelled it is called a queef or pussy fart. LOL I don't think it can kill you. Im not sure if size contributes more or not. I had experience with some partners, but not all of them. I am just over average in size, but like I said before it comes from the in out thrusting and air getting trapped in there.
gregsbaby
gregsbaby
It's not an embarrassing question :P No it doesn't kill you. If that's the case I think a lot of ladies wouldn't be here to tell about it, myself included lol!
ThisToo
ThisToo
ha ha..good point. But I do know I heard long ago it could ; but don't remember the source. Maybe it was a myth. I should ask my sister, she'd know. but she'd also say "ewww" as if it never happened to her.
;) I do think it is doggy style when it happens and yea he is well endowed. ;) We do both like that way. I find it is really a good position when we are both kind of getting worn out , since it makes for a good finish. Works every time.