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I feel so horrible after giving him a blowjob.

afirelove
afirelove

I recently decided to give tinder a try. This guy and I have been talking and texting for awhile. The only one on tinder who actually didn’t want anything sexual. we hit it off, so I asked him out, we hung out for a few hours and later at my place we started to cuddle, make out and it lead to me giving him a blowjob because I didn’t feel comfortable having sex with him. Now he barely texts me, I invited him to this fireworks show and no response. I feel like such an idiot for even thinking that he was into me. This whole situation, is making want to to swear off guys again. ( I haven’t been intimate/in a relationship with someone for two + years). 

Restful
Restful
You didn’t do anything wrong, and it’s not your fault that the guy isn’t responding to you. You both were caught up in the heat of the moment and it’s nothing to feel guilty about. You’re human, and if he has a problem with you because of that, then there’s someone better out there for you.
Barry
Barry
Don't take his coolness personally. There are lots of other men who will appreciate you. What you did would do no harm to anyone. You have plenty of time to find the right partner.
ghost23
ghost23
I think that’s an easy situation to get into.....it seems like the singles scene is really just about hook ups these days, not going on dates & getting to know one another. I think sex is somewhat of an expectation in every interaction between singles these days! I’m only commenting from my own experience, 46 years old & online dating...pretty brutal place! Don’t let this eat you up, Take away a lesson of what you’ll do different next time, there’s far too much pressure to have sex with almost strangers these days! Hugs
OIP78
OIP78
I don’t think is your fault. You are to young to deal with this kind of thoughts. If he doesn’t want to be with you is ok . Are there to many guys who want to be with you and will.
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