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I am sorry for everyone that I hurt here by trying to warn everyone of just how easy it is now to get charged with a sex offense. I used an example that was not perfect and it seems because of the example most people just completely missed the purpose of the post.
I could post other examples but I will not take the chance of stirring up any more hard feelings.
It is sad that our society has come to the point that just the mention of sex offender or pedophilia conjures up such hatred and close mindedness. I realize the need to protect children from these terrible crimes. But to the point of ruining someone elses life without being sure the crime really took place? We have become so scared and over protective that just the whisper or suggestion of someone doing something even slightly related to physical contact or just saying a few words to someone under 18 is punishable by imprisonment and branded for life. I just think that is very sad.
I know most here will not agree with me on this at all. Which tells me that I am grossly in the minority here and that I again do not fit.
Because of this I will try and find another site to be able to express my concerns and maybe find a group that is more in tune with my beliefs.
While I have met many good people here even they seem to have somehow been effected by my posts. As I dont get near the hugs and messages that I did before these last threads.
I am very very sorry for any pain or discomfort I have caused anyone. Again it truly was not my intention. My intention was just the opposite. I was only trying to make people aware of what we a becoming as a society and how easy it is becoming to find yourself in some serious trouble with the open sex talk on-line to people you really dont know.
Good-bye and I truly hope all of you stay safe.
Brent
I could post other examples but I will not take the chance of stirring up any more hard feelings.
It is sad that our society has come to the point that just the mention of sex offender or pedophilia conjures up such hatred and close mindedness. I realize the need to protect children from these terrible crimes. But to the point of ruining someone elses life without being sure the crime really took place? We have become so scared and over protective that just the whisper or suggestion of someone doing something even slightly related to physical contact or just saying a few words to someone under 18 is punishable by imprisonment and branded for life. I just think that is very sad.
I know most here will not agree with me on this at all. Which tells me that I am grossly in the minority here and that I again do not fit.
Because of this I will try and find another site to be able to express my concerns and maybe find a group that is more in tune with my beliefs.
While I have met many good people here even they seem to have somehow been effected by my posts. As I dont get near the hugs and messages that I did before these last threads.
I am very very sorry for any pain or discomfort I have caused anyone. Again it truly was not my intention. My intention was just the opposite. I was only trying to make people aware of what we a becoming as a society and how easy it is becoming to find yourself in some serious trouble with the open sex talk on-line to people you really dont know.
Good-bye and I truly hope all of you stay safe.
Brent
You can find another place thats maybe more appropriate to discuss this stuff, but please don't leave for good b/c of it!
I agree...it;s wrong that people are falsely accused, and prosecuted without proof or proper investigation.
That is just one of things that is wrong with this stupid assed society.
because a child says something happened, does not make it truth....especially with children evolving as quickly as they (we) are....indigos are all around us now, and they do not behave as expected. thoughts, rules, and laws need re-evaluating to accommodate this.
The point is, that's not something that would have ever occurred to me as a child .
Not offended by anything you posted, just have a differring view on some issues because of life experiences.
Merry Christmas. Waiting for your humourous posts to pop up again.