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HOW MUCH SEX PER WEEK

GZUSthug
GZUSthug
OK, IT HAS BEEN VERY ENTERTAINING FOR ME TO TRACK TRACK MY SEXUAL EPISODES PER WEEK, BUT IT ALSO GOT ME WONDERING...

WHEN YOU WERE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP, HOW MANY TIMES ON AVERAGE DID YOU AND YOUR 'SO' HAVE SEX IN A WEEK.
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
OOOH, I GOT SO EXCITED THAT I STUTTERED.
deleted_user
deleted_user
1 time or none, because of all the drugs that i take, you don't want it as much.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wanted 3-4 times per week. I got 3-4 times per year.....maybe a few times more depending on the year.

Sad, but true....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Per week???
You count it by a single week?

How about seasons?
Once or twice maybe.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It depends on the week. Sometimes we will have sex every day twice a day, and then go without for 2 weeks. Usually it's like 3 times a week though, but it varies a lot.
deleted_user
deleted_user
When I was still happily married 5 times a week was average....... make that like the only thing I miss about marriage......
deleted_user
deleted_user
It has varied with each partner, with one I racked up 32 times in a week (thats the one who dumped me for being too demanding, LOL).
TBH, I try to cram as much in as possible into the hours spent together!
ChrissyH
ChrissyH
0-5 depending on my husband's work schedule. When he is working at night---those are the 0 weeks
ChrissyH
ChrissyH
0-5 depending on my husband's work schedule. When he is working at night---those are the 0 weeks
ChrissyH
ChrissyH
0-5 depending on my husband's work schedule. When he is working at night---those are the 0 weeks
ChrissyH
ChrissyH
I only replied 1 time---HONEST
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wanted at LEAST twice a week but with my stbx I was lucky if I got it once in 6 months and the over the last 2 years it was ZERO! :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
Dag Kel, sorry. 3 times any non period week with W 5 or more with gf
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hmmm. Well I'am in a relationship as we speak (of 21 yrs) and we haven't had sex in about 3 yrs. My choice though. And there is more to that story.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Fiesty, how is that possible??? 3 years!! I can not even imagine. Do oyu go elsewhere? Sorry, I know another person that I have been "friends" with that is in the same situation and she did not leave do to kids and anxiety but I never did understand it...