I've never had any time requirement, but my ironclad rule has always been, not unless I love him, and I'm convinced he loves me.

I don't really have a rule. Sometimes I am quick to jump in, and sometimes I wait. It really depends on the vibe the guy is giving me. If he seems like he really likes me and I like him, it's likely to happen fairly quickly. If the guy seems like a d-bag, then I'll make him want it and want it and never give it up until he finally gives up. If he doesn't give up on me and I realize he is not really a d-bag, then I go back to the first scenario.

I like to go slow myself. a month or two. But in my younger days I was very much a RIGHT NOW kind of guy.

LOL both proto-Dave and modern Dave would be frustrated by me... I've never slept with a guy after only two months dating...

I managed to abstain for 20 years, and could do it again if I had too ;-)

Proto-Dave: Me big man.

Banging away by the second date...

Well, I tend to fall fast and I fall hard. Lust/Love happens pretty damn quick for me, then about S-E-X Yes, Please! All Night long, Tantric, satin sheets with silken rose petals. carry me to bed, my love.

...depends on what I want out of the relationship. If its purely an entertainment purposes kind of thing, then I'll pretty much hop right to it. If I'm thinking I may want things to go somewhere with the guy, then I like to wait a few dates to give ourselves a chance to get to know each other before things get physical

I teared up thinking about this. I'm a very sentimental type of guy, so I'd bring flowers and tell her that I love her for as long as it took to win her heart. It might take years, but I'd wait until she was ready. I mean, I'd still be gettin' some on the side, but would wait until she was ready for me to make baby inside her.

I have no time restrictions. It could be the first date. But shit I hate the word date.

Come to think of it. Almost everyone has been during the first meeting. Well except for a friend who I had known for a couple of years, then it was just out of boredom of the night.

No rules for me as to when, but rules as to what type of sex. It was different for different people I was with, some I waited a while, some not, some never had sex, stbxh it was right away, didn't even know his last name.

With partner, we had a 7 month on-line and phone thing going before we were able to meet in-person and when we finally met, we spent a week together so I guess you can say it was right away with him in a sense but not if you count the 7 months of on-line and phone "relationship".

I never waited for love or until I became too emotionally attached before having sex. Sexual compatibility in a relationship is very important to me and I want to know we're sexually compatible along with being compatible in other ways I see as important in a relationship before investing too much into a relationship. If we're not compatible, that's a deal-breaker for me.

wow so many variables!!! I have only ever been with my hubby and he had to wait a whole two months! i was 18 he was 22. I am very niave when it comes to other lovers it kinda freaks me out a lil to be honest :S