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Katethegreat
Katethegreat

   I have been with my BF for way over a year. He is extremely gentle with me, to the point of bordem. How can I get him to turn it up? I am already the aggressor when im drunk. Why do I feel like im rapping him? Any help.......I am about to venture elsewhere. 

lb7268
lb7268
Come on over.
simplymebp
simplymebp
Have you sat him down and explained to him how you feel??
That you need a something a little more rough and that you really wont break. And try different things... I have the same problem with my husband and I have more ideas if you would like.
koolman
koolman
Tell him you're not a porcelin doll, you won't break, he can rough you up a bit. Then see if he has it in him.
Joe100
Joe100
Do some roll playing. Suggest things like (you both met at a bar ... etc. ) Doctor and patient .... Felon just getting out -- Find some special clothes for the occasion. Then play a few games with him -- like tease him and don't let him have it that easy while its happening. Make it a game to see how long y0u both can go before you let him inside you.
doubleDmikey
doubleDmikey
Ya sit him down and tell him what u need.....never new there were women on this side of it.... I've always been a total pleaser .... for me I'm not happy unless I'm doing everything she likes.....the more she gets turned on the more I enjoy it!
Men must be total givers in bed!!