Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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kittycat72d 01/30/2013

any home remedies for females for getting jump started to get in the mood ? something like a natural stuff any suggestions?

tossedaside 01/30/2013

Hmm apparently your man doing housework is out, maybe drizzling honey all over him and you then licking it off would work.

No seriously honey and cinammon are suppose to have libido increasing affects.

tossedaside 01/30/2013

Avacados are reportedly good also, google it.....

Lots of things are out there, read up on it and discuss the situation with your partner.

des10ed2b 01/30/2013

i have actually heard that women's bodies respond to scents. (probably why scented candles are so popular. lol). pumpkin pie is supposed to be the most effective, but i have also heard of apples, cinnamon, etc. I know that scent is a big one for me. I love smelling my husbands neck, forehead, or hair at the end of the day. tommy hilfiger and nautica cologne also do it for me.

deleted_user 01/30/2013

Use your mind to get in the mood, our mind is our largest sex organ. Reminisce about times you were hot and horny and about previous sex sessions that were fantastic. Fantasize about things you want to do to your lover or have him do to you. Dress sexy, shower together, give him a massage or have him give you a massage.

deleted_user 01/30/2013

Chocolate, roses, soft music, candlelight and ERIC!

reveal321 01/30/2013

oh...and here i thought this was a "hints from heloise" thread where i could learn how to remove coffee stains from a lampshade.

reveal321 01/30/2013

oh, and fyi...

Heloise Updated Window Cleaner
12 to 16 ounces water
1/2 cup white or apple cider vinegar
1/4 cup rubbing alcohol (70%)
1-2 drops blue or green food coloring, if desired
1-2 drops lavender, cinnamon, clove or orange essential oil. Combine the ingredients and put into a labeled spray bottle.

kittycat72d 01/31/2013

reveal what does your comments have to do with my post??

reveal321 01/31/2013

nothing.
sorry, i got side tracked.

but i agree with what leather said.
the mind can take you to sensual places.

montaname 01/31/2013

she was making light of the post title, kitty. All kinds of things went through my head when i saw the title too. Good luck with this.

Reveal, thanks ! i love home remedies :) and considering you also posted about your man washing windows outside...i had to laugh when i saw this cuz i'm thinking...Oh, she keeps this stuff on hand....for THAT reason, lol

deleted_user 01/31/2013

I just start watching porn or have a friend say something erotic that they have done. Usually works for me. :D

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