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Have you ever been

Tray34
Tray34
someones first?First love?First time?
kidsintowe03
kidsintowe03
uh...yeah...in high school...LOL...well, at least I thought so at the time...found out a lil something diff a couple years later....


MEN!
deleted_user
deleted_user
the guy i lost my virginity to, was both of our first time...THAT was interesting to say the least. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
My first time was with a fellow virgin. And i've had a couple since.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, dont know about being THE first for anybody, I leaned towards the hell-raisers in my youth...oh who the frig am I kidding, I still lean, baby!
deleted_user
deleted_user
the only first i know of is that im the first person my boyfriend's given oral too :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
My hubby clamied that i was his 1st but he was such a liar...our 1st time he did moves and put me in positions that showed his experience...he just doesnt like to talk about his past encounters...i've asked but he refuses idk why tho
deleted_user
deleted_user
wow...i demanded to know about my h's past lovers when we started getting serious...wanted to make sure that he used proper protection, and that I wasn't at risk for some kind of disease or something.

of course i gave him the same information.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, my stbx didn't have much of a "list" at all. She was very sheltered and closed. She was shocked when she asked me how many women i'd been with and i really had to take some time to think and remember. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
lol...about the same reaction w/hubby...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Maybe, and yes. My high school/college boyfriend SAID I was his first real love, but he had dated other girls before me, one for 2 years. He said that was mostly just puppy love though.

I have also been with two virgins, although I did not know it at the time lol.
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes-my ex husband was my first and I was his back in highschool. It was bad!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have been a first and been with a few firsts too!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
i dont even want to think about my first time..
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm with Chelsea...don't wanna go there
I was a fella's first when we were in HS...it was awkward
deleted_user
deleted_user
this is really strange but my first time , meaning the date was equal to the temp paper burns . so if you could be so kind and remind me, it was a lonnnnnnnnng time ago.