Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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bobinmaine 05/11/2012

Reveal?

She is my running buddy but came up amonst the missing! I looked to my left and she was gone !

Must be skiing in Colorado again.

deleted_user 05/11/2012

Hold on I'll go get her. I left her tethered to the bed post so it might take a minute to bring her out.

MsViv 05/11/2012

I have been wondering where she was.. And mizz prizz too..

debmitchell 05/11/2012

Not many places you can still ski out here...

deleted_user 05/11/2012

Awww, Viv! Ya miss me huh, huh, huh? I'm being a good girl these days. Trying not to think of sex, considering I don't have a healthy sexual outlet. I did get a FWB proposition two days ago. Same ole same ole sick stupid scenario. I said no. With a capitol NO. This place makes me think about what I don't have and it's become a downer. So..... until a healthy scenario comes along. Like a REAL relationship, I just pray. Alot. lol. You guys are great.

MsViv 05/11/2012

There you are girly! Don't ever stop thinking about sex..it's healthy....

How come you said no to the fwb? Sometimes it's the way to go, sometimes it's even better to leave the f out..
Well meaning the friends f out.. Not the benifits f out.

MsViv 05/11/2012

I am

deleted_user 05/11/2012

The fwb proposition came from a significantly younger man. Without being offensive, I've not had anything good come from those. Long sad story filled with dissapointments and ultimate rejection. They can't handle an older aggressive woman is the only thing I can figure.

MsViv 05/11/2012

Mizz, ex was 9 years younger. It took him 26 years to realize I was to much for him to handle.
I should have kept the leash a lot tighter or gotten rid of the leash a long time ago.
Younger guys can be very good for what you want then for.. You can mold them how you want them. Just make sure you are the one to throw them to the curb when you no longer have a use for them otherwise it ends up being a complete bumblefuck.

deleted_user 05/11/2012

Idk, Viv. I'm done with 'em. There's just too too much left out with the type of propositions I get and from the type of guys I get them from. I want entirely more than they can even comprehend yet alone deliver. I can't do that to myself and they certainly arn't worth my good shit. I'll hang out abstaining until A). I can't take it anymore. B) Someone appropriate comes along.

MsViv 05/11/2012

That sounds reasonable..