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I am in my thirties and my kids are Tweens. i have a great husband, but lately I keep getting crushes on guys in their mid twenties. I have struggled with problems with my left leg all my life, so maybe I am fascinated by their healthy athletic bodies. I'm trying to behave myself.
You are on a slippery slope here DSF, I would be concerned if I were you. My ex was yapping up our employee and before he knew it, having sex with her.
I'm not accusing you of cheating but would you want your husband to be crushing on younger women and developing feelings?? Does that seem right to you?
No, seriously, a ' crush' is one thing ( I think a lot of people have ' celebrity crushes ' ), but like IHAGC said, developing feelings is a whole other thing. May I ask what you mean by saying you're trying to behave yourself? Are you tempted to cheat with a younger guy?
dummy me just realized you did say you had feelings for two of your crushes. I missed that reply, so you don't need to answer my question.
I'll agree, very slippery slope. You say you have a great husband, right?
Maybe you need to really try to distance yourself from any of these 20 somethings completely if you can.
wish you the best.
LMT