face....really truly personality, and how the person carries themselves...but on first impression, face...

i have a bit of a underweight problem, which is embarassing, it looks kinda gross, well to me. i have told to gain weight by my docs, but cant seem to

so bit uncomfy with bones stickin out even in front of my h

I know that before I lost the weight that I had gained throughout two babies and marriage...yes I did. I did not feel comfortable with my body. I do now since I have lost weight. It's it a terrible thing that us women feel that way?

despite what others may think about my profession, I am extremely self conscious about my body, I have stretch marks from giving birth so many times, I have loose skin from going from 220 pounds down to 108 pounds. so yeah i am very concerned with my body. As for men, I prefer a nice fave and I am a sucker for eyes. It isnt the shape or build of the person as much as it is what they bring to the table intellectually.

Yes, I hold back...opposite problem as dar's...

*long drawn out sigh*

Hmmmmm....

Being uncomfortable with my body has definately been an issue I've had all my life. I developed prematurely as far as physique. I had boobs long before the other girls, and boys would grab me in school, and stuff. It made me feel embarrassed so my negative self body image issues came about rather early in life. That in turn screwed with my confidence and definately effected me in the grand scheme of things and I suppose held me back from lots of things.

I'm still not comfortable with my weight, but I'm okay with my body, and have began to really accept me for the way I look.

It took me a while but now I am extremely comfortable with my body. It doesn't look any different than before but for some reason I like it now a LOT! :)

From a man's perspective, body types are more about what the media thinks is hot and usually the media is out of touch with what men really like.

i don't mind a few curves or stretch marks, at least we know you are real. and to me real is sexy

i hate my body for same reasons as u women do, i don't fit the "greek god" most women seem to want according to "society" good thing i have over come that today

Oh Medic you are a greek god to us!

BUMP

FACE IS FIRST, BUT BLONDES WITH BIG TITS ARE A CLOSE SECOND.

YES I HAVE ALWAYS HELD BACK BECAUSE I WAS UNCOMFORTABLE WITH MY BODY BUT BEING ARROUND MY HUSBAND HAS GIVEN ME WHAT I NEED TO FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH WHO I AM . ALL THAT MATTERS IS WHAT HE THINKS AND IF HE LIKE ME THAT ALL I NEED TO CONCERN MY SELF WITH.

Thanks for all the responses..As for me,looks,wheter its face or body is not the most important thing.Of course someone good looking gets your attention but I am not into someone who is "too" involved with themselves and looks..
I dont feel comfortable with my own body,especially now.My husband says he has no problem with my body and honestly I dont believe him.Why?I dont know.He seems happy with me but I guess because I am so unhappy I "see" things that arent there.Am I making sense?I have never been skinny or even small so I dont expect to ever be.And I know I will never look like those women on TV..I wish I could accept myself more and be happier with me.Sorry for rambling.

a ladies eyes first catch my attention, the curve of her smile seems to draw me closer and the sound of her voice is a complete turnon or off. I agree wtih medic about how the media perceives beauty and also would like the ladies to know each and everyone of you are beautiful in your own special way. thick to thin, short to tall just gotta say I like you all

Oh,TA,thats so sweet....