Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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joybells 01/05/2008

I am married to a man who has no idea how to please a woman in bed.I have told him what I like and even have shown him but he still doesn't have a clue.I love sex and being itimate but I want someone who knows what he is doing.My husband is boring in bed.I am ready for some great sex.

deleted_user 01/05/2008

I think you have to show him, help lead him. My stbx - I was his first and have been his only. I had to do that with him. He got very good at some things. And I got him books along the way that maybe could give him some tips. I read it with him and told him what worked for me.

deleted_user 01/05/2008

Why don't you try doing kinky things to HIM and see if he likes it? If he does, say "now try that on ME!"

By the way...what does "stbx" mean?

deleted_user 01/05/2008

... tell your hubby if he doesn't get up to par, you're going to bring in a pinch hitter...LOL
star..(soon to be ex) stbx

deleted_user 01/05/2008

I WOULD SAY GET A PORN MOVIE AND YOU AND HIM SET DOWN AND WATCH IT AND TELL HIM THIS IS WHAT YOU LIKE . NOT ONLY WILL HE GET HORNY BUT IT WILL ALSO BE A GUIDE ON HOW TO DO IT.

deleted_user 01/05/2008

what the hell does STBX mean?!?

deleted_user 01/05/2008

oh wait...you just told me. I'm a doofus!

joybells 01/05/2008

I am willing to try anything at this point.

deleted_user 01/05/2008

I've "broken in" two virgins; they were brilliant.
It just takes patience.

deleted_user 01/05/2008

"For better or for worse..." Doesn't that part of the wedding vows suck?!?
It should have an escape clause: "Unless he sucks in bed, even after showing & telling him what and how I like it..."
Good luck,
Irish

joybells 01/05/2008

All I want is someone who knows what they are doing.I like wearing the sexy lingerie and being seduced and all that goes with it.He doesn't like that stuff.

deleted_user 01/05/2008

You can't be married to my stbx, the divorce hasn't gone through yet.

deleted_user 01/06/2008

ha not my quote but it still fits "try it before you buy it" ... hindsight of course

cowboy357 01/07/2008

this is 1 reason why people have sex before marraige.
you don't buy a car without test driving it why would you have a sex partner without riding him/her?

cowboy357 01/07/2008

who says u r not supposed to ?
theres no refund on them ?

deleted_user 01/07/2008

joy, being seduced is really part or romance. Hell, if ya find an answer on how to make a husband more romantic, shoot it my way. For good sex, video's good, lot of "toys" out there and maybe making sex hot and horny for him then he would "see" what you're talking about. Then there's patience, lots of patience. Don't give up on your marriage; you can always improve sex. Praxtice makes perfect, ya' know. Lots and lots of practice

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