Healthy Sex Support Group

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Tray34
Tray34
Sometimes after my husband comes he is still erect.Does that happen often?(for him it doesnt)Why does it stay hard?Can you have sex immediately after if it is still up?
deleted_user
deleted_user
well hell yah,,,, most times 6 or 7 times in a row,,, especially if its good hot and wet
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have before and it's also up to your lover and if he or she can keep you up :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm jealous Tray!
Tray34
Tray34
why are you jealous cb?
deleted_user
deleted_user
My hubby is usually still hard, after and can go again-only if I'm up for it though!
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
Sometimes they are so sensitive after they cum they can hardly stand even really lite sucking. If he can stand it...then go for it girl!! I am so jealous!! lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yeah, I am able to also but I have to have the right partner. Tray34 - evidentally he is enjoying himself or it wouldn't. If some of the women what some advise, if it doesn't..give it a few minutes then start in again..some time you have to give it some cool down time...lol Second time is even better than the first by the way..(for me at least.)
deleted_user
deleted_user
channing has done this!! its normal take advantage of it girl lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's usually too sensitive to do much right after I cum. This is the time to give it lots of gentle touches, and lightly-- LIGHTLY-- play with the balls. In the right hands, it recovers fairly quickly.
koolman
koolman
Wow! Nice "problem" to have! I'll have what he's having...

Me, after I cum, it shrinks back down, but, within 5 minutes of gentle massage and stroking, it's hard and firm and ready to get back on "the job". I find that, although I can fuck multiple times, I can't cum more than once a day now tho. My balls only hold so much LOL.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yep i stay erect after I cum everytime
deleted_user
deleted_user
it is normal. Me on the other hand sometimes it stays hard after cumming, but most of the time is goes soft and really sensitive afterwards but 5 minutes later lets get it on baby...
Deesdiamond
Deesdiamond
Im the same as KOOLMAN.but you need to get it first b 4 u can be like koolman an I..ha ha ha.at the moment i just use my PAMELA and HER SISTERS.HEE HEE HEE.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My husband always stays hard after he cums and I love it, that means we can keep on going. Hell to the yeah!! :o)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I find that if you play gently (a favourite hobby of mine) you can get a second (third? fifth?) round out of it rather quickly.

Immediately latching onto it after he cums with a grip like you're trying to twist the lid of the peanut butter jar is a good way to get that big black X under the "cons" list when the guy is making the "should I fuck her again" list.