When I was married I ALWAYS inititated it, for once I would love for a woman to just jump on me and go crazy. I think that when you are in true love you want it all the time, and I certainly did, her sex drive was WAY lower, always made me feel self-conscious.

In a perfect world, I would have sex at least twice a week. In my own personal experience, I don't think there is anything as too much sex (although there would have to be recovery periods). I prefer to initiate but absolutely love it when my partner takes the initiative.

I am almost always the initiator, and wish my wife would more often. When you are ALWAYS the one to start things, you get the feeling that your partner just isn't that interested.

In a perfect world, I would like to have sex most every day. (At least the ones I am feeling well enough to!) The only time I would ever turn it down if she were to come onto me, would be when I just don't feel well enough to.

in a perfect world huh? i guess i'd say at least once a day. sometimes I want it and she dosn't. other times she wants it and I dont. usually we're pretty evenly matched. The only frustrating thing is being discrete for the kids.

In a perfect world, almost everyday. I think each partner should inititate it when they are in the mood. They should be comfortable with each other and be able to tell each other when and what they want.

Every day would be ideal, or every other day. I prefer it when she initiates it, but I usually end up doing it after waiting for a week or two. She claims to enjoy sex and wants it, but with kids, grandchild, etc., life usually interrupts a "normal" sex routine.
But in a perfect world, every day would be the "perfect" way to go!