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First Word You'd Say

koolman
koolman
to someone you'd like to have sex with.

For me, it'd be "hello" and "you're beautiful"! The former, to be friendly, and the latter, so she'd know instantly that I think of her as more than just a friend...
deleted_user
deleted_user
so if I said, "Is that a mirror you have in your pocket? Because I can definitely see myself in your pants" is NOT a good thing to say?
koolman
koolman
Ha ha ha...probably not.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry, but I tend to translate "you're beautiful" as the guy really saying "I'm a psycho." Or is that just me?
But then again, I've been single for a depressingly long time now, so what would I know?
deleted_user
deleted_user
You have a gorgeous smile and eyes. ;o)
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly
Those are good Kool!

And I usually only am the one to hit ON when its a girl. And I tell her "You're gorgeous!"

Not so brave with the guys! (BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am with you flutter, I was a shy dater. My husband, when we first met, He introduced himself, " Hi, my name is Mike, Mike Oxhard". If you say it a bit, you will get it.. That is not his real last name.. But I found it too be true...LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ldy, once he met you, he could say that was ALWAYS his name huh? ;P
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thats funny LDY Ive used that same line. They never get it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You got that right, he introduces me sometimes as this is my wife "Hot Ass". Certain people.. Some people, "My beautiful wife". Remember, compliments.. They go along way......