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Female Masturbation- bath/shower question :)

Fallen1991
Fallen1991
For those ladies that do this, what tricks or secrets do you have that other women may enjoy?

For me, I have an extendable shower head that is AMAZING for clitoral stimulation... I love using warm/hot water until right before I get an orgasm, and then changing it to cold... It makes my orgasms so much stronger... It's also fun to use waterproof toys now and then :) I actually just ordered a couple more for use before my husband leaves for basic training.... Idk how I'm gonna handle that one, months with no sex lol
arem
arem
Needless to say your husband will be busy in boot camp, but as I remember they do allow you to write letters.

Maybe ask him to write you some erotic letters - if you think that might help? I'm sure he wouldn't mind.

I wasn't married when I went through boot camp looong ago, but if my wife asked me I'd happily have written her some provocative stuff and would have enjoyed the thought of her pleasuring herself to my letters.
deleted_user
deleted_user
shower massagers aren't just for women anymore. just sayin.
des10ed2b
des10ed2b
yep, detachable shower head is the only way it works for me. my butt is too big too use the bath faucet. i would probably take too long and have the bath over flow too. just be careful ladies, if you are anything like me your knees are going to buckle and if you cant catch yourself quick you are bound for a really nasty fall.
Whyme12
Whyme12
So true Des. My head has gotten a few bruises from falls. Kind of hard to explain those to people.
whiskeytangofoxtrot
whiskeytangofoxtrot
OMG! I literally just laughed out loud!!!

Des and Why.....nice to know I'm not the only dumbass that's done that....LMAO!!!!
des10ed2b
des10ed2b
lol. nope. totally been there, done that. i have thought about recording myself doing that because i know my body starts doing all kinda of crazy things as it tries to move in orgasm AND tries to keep itself up right. but yes, i have ended with many a scrapped knee or bruised tail bone. I try to save the shower head for only rare occasions. lol.
TheAnthemOfTheAngels
TheAnthemOfTheAngels
Girls....just lay down in the bottom of the shower...........

That's what I do.

Extendable shower heads are extendable for a reason!
debmitchell
debmitchell
Still giggling from reading Des's, Why's, and Whiskey's posts. Listen to Anthem, girls...
Fallen1991
Fallen1991
Lol I also take the head off the shower and just use the hose, there's a way stronger flow that way. I also lay down in tub so I don't collapse when I orgasm either. My legs completely go weak if its strong enough and I'm already accident prone.
tossedaside
tossedaside
often wondered if you ladies that indulge in the shower head satisfaction, get goose bumps when walking through a park on a warm summer day and suddenly the auto sprinklers kick on,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2D-jmYHg1Q&feature=related

a related note, serious consideration when building or remodeling a home, consider safe masturbation/sex or just lay down as Anthem says. LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
Tossed, we have an in-ground sprinkler system in our yard, so all I have to do is sit on the grass. :)

I get this same sensation from sitting on one one of the jets in the hot tub. Thank God for privacy fences.
des10ed2b
des10ed2b
lol. my shower head wont reach that far and i dont want to lay on the cold tiles! i have a seat in my shower that i have sat on before, but it just makes it too hard to hit the spots just right. i will risk the scrapped knee for the better orgasm. lol.
tossedaside
tossedaside
hmmm des, could I offer some services, like maybe putting an extension on your shower head LOL or perhaps a body sponge to cover the tiles.
Bravo to your gusto though, willing to scrape a knee for a powerful orgasm, now thats appreciated dilligent dillying, LOL
Fallen1991
Fallen1991
Mine barely reaches the bottom of the tub too, but I make it work lol there's actually this extendable showerhead at Fry's electronics with like a million settings on it that I want to try lol told my husband I'm buying it when he leaves for basic training
arem
arem
Too funny. With all this potential upgrading of shower heads I think you may also be stimulating the economy : ) really a win win all around! As Tossed suggested - just be safe - you wouldn't want to fall and get a concussion or anything like that.