Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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bobinmaine 09/03/2011

The longer we go without sex, the more we want it, and the more preoccupied we are with it?

Is that a bad thing?

deleted_user 09/03/2011

Yes and no, depends on if I'm in a relationship or not.

If I'm not in a relationship, I miss sex, I want sex but it's not a huge deal and I'm not preoccupied with it, taking care of myself does me fine.

When I'm in a relationship that's a different story. When I have to go without I do feel preoccupied with missing it and wanting it but it's also the more I get, the more I want.

Damed if I do and damned if I don't.

deleted_user 09/03/2011

When I was celibate for a long time, it was almost like I forgot what I was missing and stopped thinking about it. Now that I have it I want more. Missing something healthy and nourishing if you don't have it makes sense. When you go without food you get hungry. Perfectly normal.

koolman 09/05/2011

If we have other creative outlets for our minds and horny little souls, it's irrelevant.

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