Believe in it? Or have you done it? LOL I've done it.

No, I'm old fashion and I personally think it's harder to say no to sex and keep your panties on than to drop them!! If I truly want to make the relationship work then waiting a bit won't harm it. I like the sexual tension, flirty and teasing prior to actually having sex with someone new. I like to build a bit of sexual tension so to speak. Im not a tease, dont get me wrong when I say building sexual tension. Plus I dont know him well enough on a first date to be intimate. Hell I think I'm the only who doesn't have sex on the first date. I know Ill be the odd ball on this question hehe

No your'e not Merc, I would never consider it myself. And I'm a bloke !!

Ah that is nice to know Broken that I'm not alone :)

it's a fantasy....like the tooth fairy, Easter bunny....unicorns....stuff like that....

except...Nessie....or Sasquatch.....

but not like that Abominable....you know...the one with Rudolph...that's just silly......

Well I might live on Fantasy Island Boss ;) I mean Sing hehe

it depends on how well I knew the person. Someone I know and trust? Maybe. Someone I've chatted with online for a year before we met? Probably. Some guy that picks me up in a bar? Ummm no.

I would think that she might think that I might thing she is a slut to do it on the first day but in the past and I mean waaaay in the past, (reliving my youth here) I have been asked on a first date, "Is there something wrong with me?" So I dunno!

Does that make sense?

I'm not sayin it was my norm, LOL. I'm just saying I've done it. I kissed my wife on our first date, but she made me wait 6 months to get her in bed. Look how well that turned out LOL

NO>>

My usual wait would be *at least *a MONTH of dating ... then... we'll see.
Then you can see just what the guys intentions are (duh) and if they stick around, then its all worth it! ;0 P

Is a one night stand a first date? Does it count?
I swore that I'd never put out on a first date but met and then went out with this really gorgeous bloke on a date on a Friday night and ended up staying in each others company for the whole weekend until Sunday evening when we actually had great sex.
Bless me, I was so glad I didn't go against my better judgment!

define sex

Im sure its probably 50/50 some do, some don't.

It has happened for me b4, but I think I'd rather the relationship develop in some way b4 the postuerpedic polka takes place these days, then again Im weak I probably couldn't say no

Wow it's great to see everyone answer and be so honest and open. Thank you guys :)

we aim to please Merc

You sure do Toss :)