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I have been speaking with someone that I have met on a dating site. We haven't met in person yet but we live pretty close together.
Tonight she called me and asked me if I wanted to come out tonight and meet her. It would take me 45 minutes to get up to where we would meet and I would have to shower, shave, etc. We have already planned a date for next Friday.
I told her that I needed to take care of some bills and do some other chores like that and tonight wasn't a good night. I said that I was still looking forward until Friday.
I have a job interview on Tuesday. She knows this and knows of my current job status. I told her that I also wanted to save money until I am sure that I get the job.
Did I just mess up here? I kind of want to go out now but it would be late by the time I got up there and I really don't need to be spending money right now (gas, date, etc). It is neat that she actually asked me out tonight and if it had been earlier then I would have probably gone. Who knows.....but now I am worried that I have messed up and scared her off.
Tonight she called me and asked me if I wanted to come out tonight and meet her. It would take me 45 minutes to get up to where we would meet and I would have to shower, shave, etc. We have already planned a date for next Friday.
I told her that I needed to take care of some bills and do some other chores like that and tonight wasn't a good night. I said that I was still looking forward until Friday.
I have a job interview on Tuesday. She knows this and knows of my current job status. I told her that I also wanted to save money until I am sure that I get the job.
Did I just mess up here? I kind of want to go out now but it would be late by the time I got up there and I really don't need to be spending money right now (gas, date, etc). It is neat that she actually asked me out tonight and if it had been earlier then I would have probably gone. Who knows.....but now I am worried that I have messed up and scared her off.
I think she was just feeling a bit lonely this evening, she probably hadn't thought about the distance you'd have to travel and the fact that you wouldn't even get there till quite late.
Good luck with the interview on Tuesday, anyway!
Whoops, appears I'm a tad bitter tonight!