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bobinmaine 04/07/2009

Is cybersexing cheating?

GZUSthug 04/07/2009

YES. NEXT TOPIC.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

Thank you, Gzus, I just fouund out my husband was frequenting an adult friend finder site putting himself out there as available......At first he did not see the issue but I explained that he is not available for any kind of fun, except for me. We did get things straightened out....I was fearful for my marriage...

deleted_user 04/07/2009

Varying opinions on this topic, but anything that is done without a partners knowledge is cheating.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

YUP...

deleted_user 04/07/2009

I'm gonna be brave and say no to this...atleast for me and my marriage, it's not cheating.

GZUSthug 04/07/2009

YOU WANNA CHAT.HEHE.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

lol. I hope you're not in a relationship then after your response.

GZUSthug 04/07/2009

I'M A LONG TIME DS CYBERSEXER, AND IT'S GOTTEN ME IN A SHITLOAD OF HOT WATER WITH MY WIFE WHO IS ALSO A DSER.

I'VE BEEN RAKED OVER THE COALS SEVERAL TIMES ON THIS TOPIC, AND I PULLED UP THE LAST FEW THREADS ON THIS TOPIC TO PROVE IT.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

Anonym...I too am guilty of this as well and have the same opion as you. But, I can see where ppl get that impression.

kidsintowe03 04/07/2009

what are you trying to prove??

this subject has been beat to death and still no 3 people are going to agree.

if I wouldn't do it with my SO looking over my shoulder, then for my relationship with him, it's WRONG. PERIOD.

GZUSthug 04/07/2009

THANKS FOR CLEARING THAT UP FOR ALL OF US, KIDS.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

What's wrong for you may not be wrong for me or any other person. Everyone is different and live their lives differently. That doesn't make me better than you or you better than me...it's just how we live our lives.

GZUSthug 04/07/2009

I'M WITH YOU, AND HAPPY TO SEE THAT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND ARE THAT SECURE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. I SEE THAT TURNING IT INTO TO SOMETHING PHYSICAL WOULD BE OUT OF THE QUESTION, AND I ADMIRE YOU FOR THAT.

I'VE BEEN AN ADVOCATE FOR CYBERING FOR A WHILE NOW, BUT THERE'S JUST MANY THAT DON'T SHARE OUR SAME VIEWS.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

my question is why is your husband spending time and energy on something or someone other than the woman he professes to love?

it seems to me that his time would be better spent loving you in some positive, measurable way.

deleted_user 04/07/2009

yes i see it as cheating,this is the first and only social networking i have joined,i have some male friends on my frriends list,i have never accepted chat or sent pms to any of them,i would NOT PUT MYSELF in a situation where it could lead to anything other than friendship,I AM NOT SAYING ITS RIGHT OR WRONG TO DO IT,ITS JUST NOT RIGHT FOR TO ME

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