Healthy Sex Support Group
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I contacted a man who lost his wife a good 2 years ago. He was on a dating site. No, I wasn't but I did get wind that he was so I contacted him on facebook. Well, we were talking over a year ago but suddenly he was dating a woman and happy with her. All I did was ask if he would like to join our group for a couple of hours of entertainment. No date or anything. That is when he said he wasn't interested and dating her. I had no idea because I thought we were getting along well just messaging. His late wife had been a friend from church. He said he didn't remember me then.
A couple of days ago I messaged him just to say hi and I thought he might confirm if he was still dating her. All he said was he was fine and he knew who I was but didn't remember me from church. I went there for about 10 years! He lives about 3 blocks away and the woman is 50 miles away.
I have horrible luck with men. I'm usually nice, willing and available--also been told not bad looking (for a fat chick). What the he!! am I doing wrong!!!!
A couple of days ago I messaged him just to say hi and I thought he might confirm if he was still dating her. All he said was he was fine and he knew who I was but didn't remember me from church. I went there for about 10 years! He lives about 3 blocks away and the woman is 50 miles away.
I have horrible luck with men. I'm usually nice, willing and available--also been told not bad looking (for a fat chick). What the he!! am I doing wrong!!!!
I know when I get lonely I tend to reach out to old flames and what not and it's usually disappointing because then you find out why the relationship ended or never started to begin with then you/I just feel more depressed. Move forward. Don't look back.
I would like to see you stop referring to your self as a "fat chick"
You are only hurting yourself by saying derogatory things in your own mind about yourself.
I know because I do it too.
Instead tell yourself you are smart, and beautiful.....etc......what ever your GOOD and wonderful qualities are.
I can see that you are a very sweet and kind person just through your posts here on DS.
Mr No Fat Chicks got much friendlier today but not flirty. It seems we have become friends so I guess for now, that is enough.
I get to venting now and then when I get frustrated. I was a bit put off by the man I contacted. He is cute and has money. But what counts more for me is personality. He ain't got what it takes to impress me.