Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Today that man brought me some cream to put on my sore shoulder. I have to say it--the one who isn't in to plumb women. He can be so nice sometimes. He asked about my co-worker too. He does like her, we all do. Maybe it was just a nice gesture? I imagine it was. Maybe he tried it and didn't like it? We have talked about massages before but not on each other. I accepted the cream and will use it. What the heck!!!
He is just being a nice friend.
I do nice things for others all the time, I am not interested in them sexually though.
I also have performed favors for people, or tried to help them, without it meaning anything like romantic interest.
I understand you really like this guy, but for your own sake try to stop over-thinking everything he says and does! You've wasted enough time on this one-sided infatuation. There is someone out there for you!!! Don't doubt that. As for him not being into larger women, accept it. Men don't easily change their sexual "type". Again, there is someone out there for you who DOES prefer larger ladies. But as long as you are mooning over this man, you aren't going to find your man.