Healthy Sex Support Group
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The other night was my first time with my new GF. She is an amazing woman. I am having issues with condoms though.
A Trojan was used. The damn thing actually left a red mark around the base of me where it had squeezed me. I thought that "One Size Fits All" when it comes to those but I find the condom kind of uncomfortable. I always thought of myself as average but I have been told that I am kind of thick down there, including my current GF.
It actually really hampered my ability to orgasm. Other factors also came into play but I ended going and going and going and going and going and not finishing. I was a bit embarrased that I couldn't finish and felt bad for my GF. I told her that it was good, it was, and she is amazing, she is. She told me that I satisfied her and it was good for her (that is really important for me to know as well).
Anyone have any suggestions?
A Trojan was used. The damn thing actually left a red mark around the base of me where it had squeezed me. I thought that "One Size Fits All" when it comes to those but I find the condom kind of uncomfortable. I always thought of myself as average but I have been told that I am kind of thick down there, including my current GF.
It actually really hampered my ability to orgasm. Other factors also came into play but I ended going and going and going and going and going and not finishing. I was a bit embarrased that I couldn't finish and felt bad for my GF. I told her that it was good, it was, and she is amazing, she is. She told me that I satisfied her and it was good for her (that is really important for me to know as well).
Anyone have any suggestions?
Actually, tight around the base can help promote ejaculation sometimes (i.e. cock rings).
I like the coin ones -forget who makes them.. Durex I think.
I never did like Trojan brand.
Find a more comfortable brand; also put a small drop of lube inside the tip of the condom just before you put it on (not too much) - I'm told that makes things feel much better.
Do they sell Durex Avanti in the US? Or are they marketed under a different name? They're thinner and more natural-feeling, a lot of men prefer them for that reason.
If they're available outside the UK, maybe try Durex featherlite...
Last thing you want is to have it over lubed and in thrusting it falls off inside and you end up going bareback.
Magnums are for the bigger side, there is one other brand I saw here a few weeks ago when I was restocking, cant remember the name, but it stated on the box that they are Large for the bigger men.
Talk to a pharmacist, they will be able to tell you which ones you should try.