Never too much.

As long as BOTH partners are willing participants and are comfortable with the activities, kinky can be healthy and beneficial to the relationship.

Anything that exceeds your own set boundaries, is too much, pushing limits is part of it but you must have total trust in your partner, IMO, far from an authority on this subject, but I have dabbled in it......

I have also been dabbling in it. We have had some good experience with raising the bar so to speak. Experiment and build each time off the last go. I would like more than she does right now so there’s a level we explore and leave the door open for further ventures. Definitely establish trust. Respect and Trust. And as far as healthy goes I have found that to have fun and then let it go until the next time is best. Anything that takes over our mind is too much.

Hi FarmMom,

Sure; kinky can be quite healthy (and fun!), just as long as all participants are willing, and you don't do any harm to others or yourself!

What kind of kink are we talking about (there are a rare few that cán be harmful), or would you rather keep that to yourself? I understand if you don't want to discuss them in public, so feel free to send me a private message if you are comfortable with that. Dónt do it if you are not! I have a couple of fetishes/kinks myself, so perhaps I can give you some further advice.

As for how kinky is too much; As long as you (and other people that might be involved) don't think it's too much, and you can still enjoy yourself, it's NOT too much!

Lots of strength, and I hope you'll soon feel better...

Love, Yvette

Kinky is what you make out of it. A little or a lot depends on you and your partner. Kinky is what keeps sex interesting and not boring.

I think kinky can be healthy it depends on your partner.

I think kinky is never too much as long as both of you are enjoying your self .
Wish to have a kinky partner.

Yes, I too will say kinky can be fun, as long as it’s done out of respect for both partners and there is lines or boundaries, safe words things of that nature. Also... really get to know your partner, what her or she likes and doesn’t. Kinky helps keep things fun in a relationship, marriage, etc

sometimes i think i went too far with trying to get my wife back to being interested in sex... its a tough call. i think both have to be on-board. unfortunately we weren't....

I think any amount of kink is healthy as long as it doesn't physically harm your bodies and isn't a slippery slope of addiction that corrodes your and your partner's spiritual growth. A little lust adds spice to life. When lust becomes an obsession, an addiction, it takes one down that slippery slope where ever-greater kinks are required to get the same thrill. Then one has to back off.

Kinky is fun if both are into it. I have kinks but my wife isn't really interested

I'm wondering if my when I tried to reignite my sex life, by trying somethings "alittle kinky" w/my wife that I went too far ( in her opinion ) and pushed her farther away from me???