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koolman
koolman
Let's talk about them, guys and girls. What's your preference for size on your opposite better half (mate)?

Me, I like 'em all...prefer small...(unlike Sir Mix-a-Lot, who "likes big butts), but a bigger butt is very eye-ppealing and groovy/velvetty to the touch if it's shapely and in proportion with the rest of a woman's body.
tossedaside
tossedaside
used to think the boobies were my weakness, then the legs, anymore a nice, tight ass definately is appealing, one that even looks firm in a pair of sweatpants, a little jiggle is ok, as far as size, more or less depends on the lady, a set of bowling ball size cheeks on a very petite lady would not be my choice, nor would grapefruit cheeks on an amazon. Ass cheeks that fit nicely in the palms of my hands would be sweet. JMO
davex
davex
Having oggled many bikini clad butts in the past few days, all I can say is "gimme gimme gimme"
deleted_user
deleted_user
In male and female, I like a good firm butt that is nicely proportioned with the person and looks great in a pair of jeans.
TheAnthemOfTheAngels
TheAnthemOfTheAngels
I love my partner's ass. It's got a curve to it because he wears jeans. He's a guy and actually HAS an ass. And no, he's not fat either. It's amazing. And I love it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I like very tall, slim guys, with more tone than solid muscle definition.

I love hips, thighs, hands and the collarbone on men. If I can see their collarbone because the shirt they're wearing shows it....mmm....I just want to kiss it! It makes me really turned on- I guess to me, that's like cleavage is to a guy.
bigguy3
bigguy3
I've always been attracted to the athletic type females ... which typically means a firm, small booty. I also find my wife's butt VERY attractive though her's is more on the medium side of things.

One thing that I do find EXTREMELY attractive about a women's backside is back dimples ... a firm backside with back dimples .... WOWZER!! - for the record, my wife does have gorgeous back dimples :)
koolman
koolman
Wow...you ladies would like MY butt! Muscular, toned, tight. Bicycling is good for it.

And let's not forget how a lady with a tight little butt looks in short shorts. Oohhh...wowza. Yeeiikes.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm actually kind of indifferent to guy's bum. I don't feel the need to check it out at first. However, that said, I love my bf's but. It's kind of small, but rounded and tight. Perfectly squeezable ! But then all of him is.
deleted_user
deleted_user
One thing I must say is you men certainly have it much easier than women. Men don't put much weight on their butts. Even men who are a bit heavy still have a nice tight butt. I find men put it on in their tummy's and not their butts.