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I took a good look at my body this morning and I can't say I like what I saw. The part that really bugs me are my boobs. They aren't small or too big but they droop. I hate the thought of showing my body to a guy and having him gag.
It has been more than a decade since a man got a good look and I was firmer then and on my back for the most part. I've thought of more positions since then and they would require my being more upright and that is where I think he would run away.
Do guys mind if a woman has sagging boobs??? I know an old married couple copes with body changes over time but if I got the courage to have sex, would it be doomed before it starts???
With a bra on, I don't look that bad so I know it would be a real disappointment. What do you think?
It has been more than a decade since a man got a good look and I was firmer then and on my back for the most part. I've thought of more positions since then and they would require my being more upright and that is where I think he would run away.
Do guys mind if a woman has sagging boobs??? I know an old married couple copes with body changes over time but if I got the courage to have sex, would it be doomed before it starts???
With a bra on, I don't look that bad so I know it would be a real disappointment. What do you think?
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My goodness.
He wouldn't have let things get that far if he didn't already want to sleep with you.
I do understand though....I have always had tiny boobies and was worried that a guy would be "disappointed" but I have never been gagged on yet! lol.
I think most men have been with enough women to know that we all look different with our clothes off ... so I doubt it will be some big shock.
From what I understand about you Mary you don't do one nighters,
soo I would think by the the time the guy had got to know you & you do if you do show him your 'girls' He'll understand it's part of life.
It comes with time/age
Even as kids us boys know women droop after a certain age , it's only natarul. It's part of life wether we like it or not.
SOO no it's no big deal & when you do lay down they don't droop anymore...
As OTM says NO MAN is going to gag if he wants to have sex with you...
I had a girlfriend who wouldn't remove her top for any man until she knew him awhile, at least a month,,,,
I made her feel so comfortable she took it off the 1st night together.
I married her about 3 months later & still am married to her...
I've been with many women who are very self concious about some part of their body, I felt & tried to help them feel they had no reason to feel that way with me.
Perfect body ? It's really a matter of opinion.
My son thought his girlfriend was extremely hot lookin..
Me & everyone else thought she was plain to average looking.
Even though he thought she was the hottest girl around he also thought she was the 2nd biggest bitch around ,next to his mother.
It's true on both women his Mom was the biggest bitch in the county,That's why I divorced her. May she RIP..
Looks aren't everything Men are after Mary.
Not all men judge women on their looks,
especialy nude looks.
Sometimes I wonder if I make sense to PPl. & am I wasting my time N pain in arthritic hands.lol
I do think other PPl's comments are good as we
BTW, my wife has saggy boobs that I adore!