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tossedaside 05/17/2012

I know this has been asked in the past, however new perspectives are on the board.
Through recent correspondence and research, I have been enlightened to the bejazzled, vajazzled trend.
So, my question, to the fairer sex on the board, is this something you would consider as a treat for your partner or for yourself, also, I find belly chains extremely enticing, navel piercings too, are they uncomfy, nuisance or worth it for the reactions they may stir?

Thanks to any and all that reply

deleted_user 05/17/2012

I do the bejazzling about every other month or so. It's just something different. I find the biggest downfall to be that I do enjoy taking baths and soaking in water, opposed to showering, significantly decreases the longevity of the bejazzling. If I want something done that is a little decorative and lasts longer, I have a girlfriend who does amazing henna designs for me.

des10ed2b 05/17/2012

i have contemplated getting my belly button pierced, but i am neither young enough nor in good enough shape for it.

i would never vajazzle. i am insecure enough about my genitals, the last thing i want to do it draw more attention to it or sit there with someone looking at it to jewel it.

tats, however, i do like and hope to get more of.

deleted_user 05/17/2012

I have tats, I vajazzle every now and then and I have a silver beaded clit clamp and matching nipple clamps. You brought back memories of years gone by Toss. The belly chain, something I forgot all about. I wore a belly chain for many, many years, it never came off until it broke and Ijust never got a new one. I'm gonna have to look into getting another one now.

deleted_user 05/17/2012

I have a secret tattoo ;)

It's tiny, but it's a tattoo.

MsViv 05/17/2012

Tossed, I thought this said body odor...lol

No I don't vajazzle, bejazzle, or shimy and shine in anyway.. I'm boring.

Wondering if any guys do..

deleted_user 05/17/2012

Never really thought of a guy doing it. Imagining jewels next to mans bits just seems kind of odd to me. Hard to make masculine body parts look pretty.. Lol! There is some interesting manly "down there" jewelry though.

deleted_user 05/17/2012

Here you go Viv, scroll down about 1/2 way.

http://www.vajazzling.com/vajazzling_pictures

deleted_user 05/17/2012

Also on page 3, penazzling. lol

MsViv 05/17/2012

Hmmm, maybe I should use bejazzle to cover up all my scars...ugh, that would be scary and anyone looking would need sunglasses.

deleted_user 05/18/2012

omg I've got tears in my eyes.....to present date I have not ever bedazzled my vu-jj. that being said, I am a try anything once type of girl so I think I am going to check it out.
And just to be an asshole, I will let you all know how penazzling goes with the hubby. HAHA, he is gonna wanna kick my ass......now I am all excited.

deleted_user 05/18/2012

Don't knock the scars MsViv, scars are sexy in their own right. I actually find some scarring to be very sexy.... But if your looking for a statement or are going to a wild party with disco balls and black lights bejazzling could be really cool. ;)

deleted_user 05/18/2012

This does not work for me.. Those sparkley things look like something a teeenager would wear to a rave.
Give my woman a good tat or two. A couple of peircings a hot body and good personality is all it takes for me.

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