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newdrake308
newdrake308
Recently I really had a good time with a lady friend of mine. I want to keep her satisfied and do not want her too attached. I have asked for us both to be free to date others. She seems to be okay with this. And I have another lady friend that comes by strictly for the sex. I like this arrangement and would hope my other friend would also have someone else so she can always be happy and satisfied. So one how do I keep things spiced up ??? And two is it greedy of me to want to have more than one partner / friend ???
koolman
koolman
Maybe...if one of them gets attached. "I think we should date others" is hardly a spicer-upper for a woman.
deleted_user
deleted_user
newdrake. It is only greedy if you have misled either lady. But if they are both fully aware and consenting, then keep on trucking.
As for spicing that up, maybe you should introduce them.
newdrake308
newdrake308
Sailor one of those ladies would be happy to meet the other. The other one is a bit more shall we say "conservative." I do enjoy their company and hope they continue to enjoy mine.
Jstars
Jstars
I agree with koolman. Why did you open your big mouth about a possible Ms Other (you did not admit there was a Other but wanted the possible left open?)

Well too late now. But never mention the idea of Friends With Benefit ... Ever.

If Ms Conservative finds out, it's the old "Easier to get forgiveness than get permission" rule.

J