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Anyone try cyber-sex chat rooms?

koolman
koolman
I did and it was fantastic. No strings, no attachments, just the by the minute fee (which does add up). It ain't love, but it sure is exciting to tell all these gorgeous ladies what I imagine I'm doing to them. Turns them on sooo much.
deleted_user
deleted_user
huh?
deleted_user
deleted_user
You had to pay for it? I dont know about it I guess.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Shouldn't have to pay!
koolman
koolman
I agree, but one has to pay when one asks a girl out for an expensive dinner and hopes sparks fly, so what's the difference? Do you guys just go up to people and ask for sex? If so, I'll do that too.
koolman
koolman
Also, virtual sex is disease and pregnancy-free.
deleted_user
deleted_user
true it is disease free. Yes, actually, I have walked right up to someone and asked right out loud for sex before. I was loaded, and it didn't work, but what the hell!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I see what you are talking about but....if you are going to pay for it (anyway), why not use phone sex lines? At least you get to hear the voice. Not to be a buzzkill but remember one thing...that girl on the other end of the computer keyboard, is probably a dude. Women who do this kind of thing are phone sex operators Online - they are almost all guys. At least on the phone, there is a reasonable assumption (once you hear the actual voice) that you are talking to a woman.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Paying for it?!
Have you not heard of msn messenger?!?!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Try redlightcenter.com ** blushes a lil**
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL, rock on Goddess!!
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
That's disgusting, Fallengoddess!!!
(Copy and pasting and bookmarking, furiously!!!)
deleted_user
deleted_user
it is a great way to have cyber sex without having to give out your email addy lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
or go to www.mycams.com. It's a webcam site with MANY different genres/fetishes. You can either pay $1.99 a min or alot of em have free viewings too.
joybells
joybells
No.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just can't bring myself to do that with someone I don't know.....viewing porn is one thing, paying for something is another....I am not judging at all....I am just saying I cannot do that. Too much free porn to download if I get the "urge"....despite deleting all of mine three months ago....
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