Look, why label it bad? It just is. All my women friends are much older. I am the baby in my social circle. My friends have always been older. But in my 2 marriages, exact same age. We love who we love. Don’t label it negative.

I don't think there is anything wrong in being attracted to older people so long as we seek attention only from those who wish to give it. Many years ago, while living in Hove, I rented a room from a widow in her mid 60s. Often she would bring me a cup of tea in the morning. She would knock on my door and come in without waiting for me to answer. One morning I was doing a few yoga exercises unadorned. I did not bother to cover up - after all, it was my room. She looked down. 'That's nice' she said. 'I'm a bit of a nudist too'. Then she told me about the nudist beach nearby (I already knew of it but didn't say so). We visited it often. We must have looked an odd couple - a man of 25 and a woman about 40 years older, but I think she enjoyed it as much as I did. After the initial introduction we both went around the house freely without dressing. The full story is written up as a journal on this site. Most of the ladies and gentlemen involved were older than I was then.