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Let me ask if others have experienced what Im about to describe concerning drinking and being able to have an orgasm.
I began noticing this several years ago so maybe its something to do with aging, IDK?
We all know that on many occasions alcohol and sex kinda go together. Heck they write songs about itTequila makes her clothes come offRain makes corn, corn makes whiskey, whiskey makes my baby, get a little frisky
Anyway, a little wine or a few cocktails (Dont you just love the word Cocktails! LOL) and you find yourself and significant other getting naughty. Mr. Happy is standing tall and proud and looks up at you and says Okay you drunk bastard, lets get in there! haha
Heres what Ive experiencedI am not going to have an orgasm that night. Doesnt matter how long we go at it, doesnt matter whether its intercourse, handjob, blowjob, taking matters into my own hands, it aint gonna happen! And Im in pretty darn good shape too, endurance wise I can go forever until Im dripping with sweat and winded beyond belief and no matter how desperately I keep trying Im not going to reach an orgasm that evening.
Dont get me wrong, its still freaking awesome and feels great and we both love it, but Ive had to resign myself to the fact that if I choose to drink then having an orgasm myself is off the table.
I was just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar?
I began noticing this several years ago so maybe its something to do with aging, IDK?
We all know that on many occasions alcohol and sex kinda go together. Heck they write songs about itTequila makes her clothes come offRain makes corn, corn makes whiskey, whiskey makes my baby, get a little frisky
Anyway, a little wine or a few cocktails (Dont you just love the word Cocktails! LOL) and you find yourself and significant other getting naughty. Mr. Happy is standing tall and proud and looks up at you and says Okay you drunk bastard, lets get in there! haha
Heres what Ive experiencedI am not going to have an orgasm that night. Doesnt matter how long we go at it, doesnt matter whether its intercourse, handjob, blowjob, taking matters into my own hands, it aint gonna happen! And Im in pretty darn good shape too, endurance wise I can go forever until Im dripping with sweat and winded beyond belief and no matter how desperately I keep trying Im not going to reach an orgasm that evening.
Dont get me wrong, its still freaking awesome and feels great and we both love it, but Ive had to resign myself to the fact that if I choose to drink then having an orgasm myself is off the table.
I was just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar?
But yes I have had this happen as well.
I have had that problem in my younger years once or twice when I was in the best shape of my life. Now that I am older I tend to find that keeping an erection is more of the game for me. Mr Happy dosnt always want to cooperate so I usually end up giving her a tongue bath until he decides to get in the game. :) LOL Its a win win situation for me, because I love performing oral on my lady and if I can make her cum a couple times with that then she is usually ready for a third or fourth orgasm before I get mine.
But I don't drink anymore! Yay!
...Loved that last part of your post...
...and OTM, my daughter always described WD as one that never 'went soft'. Her bf was a drinker and he wanted to go at it all night.
but when I did how sex went depended on how drunk I was.
I think the only time things didn't work well is when I was passin out drunk.
The orgasm thing, I've always pretty much have took a long time to shoot my load. I do recall passing out aon a girl a couple times, we laughed about it.
NOT being able to fire a load ? probably been some times on booze.
but much more since I had to start taking pain meds about 5 - 7 yrs ago. That used to be flusterating i've gotten used to it even though I don't like it. According to Playboy they say doc's say the sperm that doesn't get released goes into the bladder.