When you are truly in love with someone doing these things will be easier... I am a women and I don't expect anyone to worship me, because eventually if you do it long enough she will expect it and when you aren't doing what you used to for her anymore than it will suck that's all I'm saying... But it is true that a women likes to be pampered just at the right times... Good luck!

Thanks!

What did someone do that made you feel that way? That she's some sort of queen or goddess??? Sounds like someone very high maintenance. You know, Koolman, we're not all like that!

My guy sends sweet messages during the day to let me know I am his number one. It's a two way street. I would not want to be worshiped. Knowing you are loved and treated as such is more than enough.

Good luck koolman

Stoop so low and a slave to the pussy? Hmmm.....I'm so much more than a pussy to partner and he's certainly not a slave to my pussy. I would find that insulting and degrading if that's all I was to him.

He respects me, trusts me, loves me, desires me in sexual ways and non-sexual ways, takes care of me, is a shoulder to lean on when I need it, cherishes me and all those things are the same for me towards him also.

If you're a slave to a woman's pussy and feel you have to stoop low, I'd say it's a very one-sided relationship. If the feelings for each other aren't mutual, why bother being in the relationship.

I think if you're feeling this way with the women you've been dating then maybe you're not pursuing the right kind of women. I dealt with this kind when I was younger but stopped long ago.

Whenever I see the name of this thread, It sounds like it should be a head banger song
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Slave to the pussy
Slave to the pussy
All day long,
Slave to the pussy
Gotta have it
Slave to the pussy
Slave to the pussy

And so much for my song writing...

My wife and I are this way. It is understood. NOT because I have to, but because I want to. She needs that from me, and I like the power and control she has over me. Besides, it pays BIG dividends.

Yep, you all are absolutely right; I've been with the wrong woman, a woman who is into money and power more than love and affection, and doesn't really need me. She can have her empire.

holehearted's message is the most encouraging. But thanks to the rest of you too!

I know what you mean Koolman. I am in the same boat , just wish I had 1 pussy to be a slave too :).

I hate to say this, but I can see why some guys have to pay a prostitute. But I think even they hope for a little respect.

Why would a girl want a slave? So much more fun to have a Master ^_^

To each there own, Deb.

I thought it was slave to the grind... or have I been listening to too much Skid Row?