A lot of men wake up with an erection first thing in the morning and are very randy. It could be more biologic than emotional/mental. If you are going to talk to him about this, I would go slow and gentle about it. Try not to be confrontational. Masturbation is normal (believe it or not) in many relationships. It is a way for the person to discover his/her body and what they like. If it turns out that there are deeper issues, like having been abused sexually as a child, he may need support and help. A lot of adults resort to this kind of behavior when they have been sexually abused or shamed about their bodies. I hope this helps.

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I'm female but I've found that at times when I had lots of good sex I got hornier and used to masturbate more often, not less.
Don't know if it's the same for guys tho. Perhaps they just bash away at it all the time lol
I wouldn't worry about it, just enjoy that sexy guy :)

As long as its not overly excissive or inappropriate ..it is healthy to masturbate..even if your having sex regularly
Right next to the person ur with though....I dont think thats cool..
Not for me anyway...I myself would feel unwanred and inadequate knowing my mate would rather lay next to me and jerk off than wake me up and see if I wanted to join....

I agree with iamstucka although I don't understand why he didn't get out of bed 1st .
If you haven't discussed being woke up for sex I can understand why he didn't wake you up, but it is odd he didn't get out of bed.

My wife's health is bad sleep is a problem for her b/c of it, but she still wants me to wake her for sex. I do if I know she finaly got good sleep otherwise I get out of bed to take care of myself, sometimes while we're in bed watchin tv I'll take care of myself, she doesn't mind. It took me a few yrs to be comfortable doing it like that, I know she enjoys sex ,but pain issues put a damper on that.

Was he awake jenlozi? I used to know a guy who masturbated in his sleep

My wife is okay with that on occasions and will actually talk me thru it as only she can. I will ask her to kiss me which always makes me cum. When that happens I think she is sure I am thinking of her, which I am.

wow, sleep masterbating, never heard of that. i'm sure he was awake. Im a heavy sleeper, so wouldn't apreciate being awoken for sex, which he knows, so maybe that s the reason, but I'd also assume leaving the bed would've been preferred by all.

thansk for the input.

Before I opened this post up all I saw was 'Shaking bed'

My 1st thought was that it was about those beds motels used to have that you put money in & the bed shakes, lol

Ha ha yes, I used to wake him up. Don't think he could have faked the glazed waking up face, but anyway I used to tell him where to put it next. Never waste a good erection, you'll remember and regret every single one you missed when you get to my age and the men can't even raise a smile lol!

I don't know your age Lastatthe...
But as I said in another post I had a 78 yr old friend who always had that 'SMILE' LOL.
Maybe you need to start dancing at another 'club' ? lol

Lol, you could be right cowboy!

I've thought about this for awhile.
He could be masturbating to help keep his sexual energy up.
But he should've gotten out of bed to do it.
masturbation does keep the sexual energy alive & helps him keep a stiff one longer if he holds back & don't cum, stop or slow down for a few then go back to it until the next time it wants to explode , repeat steps above until the arm/wrist/hand's tired then let it go.

If it was sex he desired he could've woken you up,
but does he know if you want to be woke up for sex???????

Sometimes I get woken up b/c my dick is getting sucked .
That's much better than gettin woke up to Folgers in my cup ! LOL
If my lady's had a decentable nights sleep I'll wake her with pleasures too.

I would have thought it abnormal, but I wouldn't worry about it personally, he has a problem, and you are not it.

Male masturbation wards of prostate cancer.

Very true oldcog.
very educational too, if ppl don't think so they should look up info on it.
regular ejaculation helps keep a healthy prostrate.