Healthy Sex Support Group

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bobinmaine 07/18/2012

To find a 40 year old virgin?

If so, what would she be like?

Just wonderin :)

Spiky 07/18/2012

No idea. The oldest virgins I've ever encountered were in their mid to late 20's.

I should mention my definition of virgin means someone who hasn't had any type of sex, including oral and anal. So that might affect the numbers.

MsViv 07/18/2012

She would be like any other person you would meet. Just one who hasn't had sex.

deleted_user 07/18/2012

I actually know a lady who was 41 when she got married for the first time and she was virgin. She was raised in a very devout Christian family. But as to how many are left? I would say virgins are few and far between after 20's.

deleted_user 07/18/2012

I was 25 when I lost my virginity (had vaginismus) and then waited another two years before I had sex again. And that includes oral. Lol!
I would imagine they are very pent up and frustrated though.

deleted_user 07/18/2012

I have a couple friends that are devout Christians as well, but are in their early thirties. I do believe that virgins are few and far between anymore though.

deleted_user 07/19/2012

There is a program on TV, sry don't remember the name but it is specifically about being virgin and in or looking for the right one. It also covers the first time with these later in life never had sex individuals. Hey, I can really respect that.

lostsoul72 07/20/2012

well she would look like a NUN. LOL

deleted_user 07/20/2012

Lost - I will actually post a picture of myself - I am what an almost-virgin looks like! One step away from a nun! Lol!! ;)

deleted_user 07/20/2012

Hopefully one day (and from then on - not just the one day) I will find the man who rocks my world and introduces me to what sex should be like - then maybe I can get rid of the habit!

itsjustme8 07/21/2012

yes, go to a convent

deleted_user 07/21/2012

lol!
i live in one.

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