My decision would depend on how he handled the whole situation. If he became emotionally distant, if he stopped all kinds of affection and intimacy, started treating me only as a care-giver or a roommate instead of a partner and refused professional help, I would leave.

....it didn't take an accident to "never experience sexual pleasure again" with my then spouse so I opted for Item C...........tho i did try Option "A" for too long a time and probably should have tried Option "B" but held true..................

agree with leather and would add a lot would depend on what stage of life I was in.

My poor Father, was a very virile man's man. He herniated in his 20's then again in his 30's. The age 30 surgical repair was botched, he later herniated 3 times more, each more severe, with near strangulation of his testicles the last time, scar tissue and age have reduced him from the man he was, testosterone is 0. Sex is the last thing on his mind, yet he and my Mother remain in love. To my dieing day, I strive to be just half the man he still is.

To be completely honest, I don't know what I'd do. I feel like Leather does about it and I would like to think positive that it would all work out and I'd never even consider leaving.