Your probably tensing your stomach muscles too hard when you orgasm hun and it would take about 10 minutes for them to relax again.

next time this happens try this:

lay on your back holding your knees with your hands while keeping oyur knees in a v formation. this should relax the stomach and the pelvic floor muscles.

whoos forgottto tell you what to do while in tihs possition...


hold your knees in that V formation with your hands and breath through your stomach. do this exercise for 10 minutes straight. you may find that during orgasm the muscles dont tence up as much or at all if you do this prior to sex. i have pelvic floor dysfunction and i use this all of the time.

thanx laydeeDi and confused by others

please try it out and let me know if it works. does your vaginal area hurt?

no but i had to have laser treatment about 2 years ago to get rid of pre cancerous cells on my cervix and its been ever since then. its worst b4 a period too.

sio just the stomach area? where else? please be very descriptive. i see my physical therapist once a week and she treats other pain conditions other than pelvic floor dysfunction. i will take your info and pass it on to her and see if she can help. they also do therapy for post breast cancer pain.

yeah just round my stomach sometines round my lower back too. Its wierd to describe but its like an achy hot pain sometimes sore enough to cry and i have quite a high pain threshold lol. Thanks.

did you do the breathin g exercise i told oyu about?