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Taken directly from my latest journal entry.
"So, somebody said on the healthy sex board under the She males thread, "I find SOME transgenders intriguing, certainly not the one here."
You know what, you're being a douche like you always do. And those words actually hurt. I am also dealing with anxiety from school, so maybe that's why it hurt as bad as it did. You really should fuck off if you're going to act like a total douchebag.
Venting over. Good day, my good sirs."
Seriously, kool, do you know how bad words affect people? I am dealing with anxiety as it is so maybe that's why it hurts. But either way you're not helping my anxiety, if anything you make me wanna punch you directly in the face. WANT TO not saying I would.
I wish people would think before they type their replies on forums. If anything the person are talking about could see it, have something going on with their day and they decide suicide is the best answer. Luckily I am NOT like that. But if I was like that, I would make a forum thread telling those involved how I felt then I'd end my life with a smile on my face knowing I'd be better off dead after asking God to forgive me for ending my life.
So, kool, if you're going to act like a d-bag then you should know how your words affect people. You should also know that I have ZERO respect for you now. So have a good day, sir.
"So, somebody said on the healthy sex board under the She males thread, "I find SOME transgenders intriguing, certainly not the one here."
You know what, you're being a douche like you always do. And those words actually hurt. I am also dealing with anxiety from school, so maybe that's why it hurt as bad as it did. You really should fuck off if you're going to act like a total douchebag.
Venting over. Good day, my good sirs."
Seriously, kool, do you know how bad words affect people? I am dealing with anxiety as it is so maybe that's why it hurts. But either way you're not helping my anxiety, if anything you make me wanna punch you directly in the face. WANT TO not saying I would.
I wish people would think before they type their replies on forums. If anything the person are talking about could see it, have something going on with their day and they decide suicide is the best answer. Luckily I am NOT like that. But if I was like that, I would make a forum thread telling those involved how I felt then I'd end my life with a smile on my face knowing I'd be better off dead after asking God to forgive me for ending my life.
So, kool, if you're going to act like a d-bag then you should know how your words affect people. You should also know that I have ZERO respect for you now. So have a good day, sir.
Yes, we SHOULD be nice but - we aren't always. That's simply his opinion and without knowing the context, (and your current stress levels) it's very possible you've taken an impersonal comment personally. It was possibly offered as a comment that he doesn't view you in a sexual manner phrased improperly.
I dunno. No offense to anyone intended (for a change!) I have nothing against either of you, you have both offered advice and support to anyone that asks. I admire that. It's what we are here for.
Everyone just keep yer zen.
This is a healing zone.
This is a refuge.
Even differences of opinion can be put properly!
I know that this post is a vent from another post. the OTHER POST , IMO, it got completely out of control and I'm not the only one who thought so.
I am sorry for the hurt and the misunderstandings.. I truly am.
but .. the other post got out of control.
I guess I just don't understand why you didn't take your issues with another member to private message. You are talking specifically to another member by name but putting it on the board. It is clearly an issue you have with him . I just feel like it's feeding alot of drama and that isn't good . I see this so much on the boards and I think these type of things make people just want to stay away. sorry.. I do. so many of us deal with so much drama in our lives. reading things like this don't help at all.
Peace out.
LMT
And NO. I actually don't HAVE to be nice. It suggests that I am. My opinion is just that - my opinion. It doesn't matter WHAT one says it's bound to tick someone off. If I post how I love cheese coz it's the BEST, the lactose intolerant would be up at arms.
it's not my job to police my responses to make SURE everyone is okay.
If we were to all sit here and state comments we liked or didn't like and got angry about what we felt was a negative comment, then this would be called the hate group and I do think there is one of them already - can't recall the name of it right now.
My opinion - stop rehashing. It's tiring, boring and tedious.
Whatever the comments were the first time, most in the group did not care, and the second time around, care even less.
If you feel you need to get your anger out in typing form, keep journaling, it's a great release for anger.