I've been with my girlfriend for 3 and half years. A little less than a year ago, our sex life kinda went down the tube. It turns out she was seeing someone else (they weren't sexually active), but afterwards, I decided to forgive her and not break up. Ever since then, our sex life has been non-existent. I think we've had sex once in the last 5 or 6 months. I've tried to do sweet things for her...tried to initiate sex, tried having mature conversations about it...but nothing is working. I don't know what to do. I feel so ungratified in the relationship, but I love her so much, I don't want to leave. What should I do?
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