drop her. i suspect, she is not committed to you.

O my. well it sounds like she is seeing someone else. I been there done that. You need to tell her or make her go or you go. You dont need to be put in that kind of spot. if you dont want to leave well you can stay and try to work with it. But it sounds like to me that she does not want it to work. I hope this helps.

As a counselor I hear this all the time. This is wrong, that is messed up, I am not happy, not getting my needs met. But I LOVE her!
Love can only carry you so far. You deserve to be happy and treated well.

Is it worth trying to see a relationship counselor?

If she's willing to see a counsellor with you then it might be worth a try. But if she's not, then I think that just shows she's not willing to work at things.

Do you have any idea about why she's lost interest in sex? Has she given you any indication?

She seems to have developed some sort of depression over the last little while. She made it very clear she's bored with life...but by the way she talks and acts, I get the feeling sometimes she may just be bored with me. When she hangs out with friends, she's a completely different person. When things are good between us, they're GREAT. It's hard to decide whether a lack of sex is a substantial reason to end a relationship. I'm not an A hole like that to be caught up in sex...but making physically satisfied just isn't a priority for her at all. She spends more time blogging than giving me attention. :\

Well it's up to her to figure out what she wants from life.
I tried to make it clear to my ex that I didn't expect him to 'fix' my life for me, it was just his job to not weigh it down any further with his dirty laundry, messing up the house, etc.

It's always worth checking that you're both happy with the basic 'rules of the road', eg who does what around the house, are you both getting enough time to do your own thing, etc.
Might not achieve miracles but it *might* help uncover any slow-burning resentments.

You do realize now that you're the guy on the side, right?

If what you want is a real, faithful girlfriend who is into you and nobody else, then you have to walk away from this one.

she's gettin reamed bro..haul ass

if she isn't doing you then she is doing somebody else get ride of her there are to many woman in the world.

I do not think it is worth going to counseling, personally.

Honestly......she probably just doesn't view you as her "man" anymore. If that makes any sense at all. You let her take control of the relationship when you allowed her to get away with dissing you like she did. Now she has all the power, therefore you are no longer "manly" to her. I have been in this situation before. If a man lets you get away with something like that, it is like they have no backbone. Most woman are turned on by a strong man. But that is not what she sees anymore.

I don't mean to be rude or anything, don't take this the wrong way please. My advice to you would be to get out of the relationship. I have come to the conclusion that once somebody cheats, the relationship is doomed. Maybe not in the near future, but eventually, there is usually one person in the relationship that can't live it down. You deserve to be treated better than that.

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck. Then ITS A DUCK! ur not goin to be able to transform it to a horse.

Shes gettin it from somewhere else so make urself happy and move on.