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Ok here it goes, I have a girlfriend and she is the best one of them all. We have a healthy relationship at the most part. But why is it everytime I am with her I get depressed because I don't think I am being too romantic. I used to be a romancer give them all they want. But at times I believe since I lost my job, and I get SSI, I can't do the things I want with her. She says she is happy and I believe her but sometimes I am not because I believe I can do much more for her. Has anyone ever been in this predicament and does this mean I am not healthy in this relationship because of this?
I don't really have an answer, except to be romantic without spending a dime. Just take her to a park or quiet place where you two can cuddle. You're romantic; you just need to relax and let it happen.
Truely ask yourself how much you love her and how long you can be with her.
Best Advice = Honesty
good luck !