I have been romantically involved with my boyfriend for 8 months now. Before becoming serious, we were the closest of friends for nearly 5 years. I trust him, completely, but I was cheated on in my prior relationship, and still think I have a little bit of baggage from my ex putting other women before me.

Anyways, my bf has been very honest with me all the time from what I can tell. When he talks to a member of the opposite sex he tells me, lets me see texts, fb messages, and what not. He told me he had been talking to his nephews baby momma because she had been going through alot. She had just broke up with her bf, lost her job, etc, etc... This made me a little uncomfortable, but he had been open and honest with telling me and has let me see everything so I dont feel like there is any reason to not trust him.

We took this past week off work to be together, and one night while I was over at his house, at 3 am, she called. (my bf works third shift, so its typical for him to be up at this time and she knows this). She didnt know I was there, or if he told her, she didnt care. She was drunk and saying that they should just go ahead and hook up and get it over with. He asked her what she was doing and if she was crazy and then hung up on her. She knew about me and that we were in a relationship, so he doesnt know what got into her... he keeps using the excuse she was drunk, she probably doesnt even realize she did it. I told him that I felt like the damage was done, and I felt horribly disrespected by her when she knew he was involved. He agreed and said she had ruined the friendship and he was done with her. He hasnt done anything else to remove her from his life though. She is still on his fb page, and he told me she has called at texted several times since, and he has just ignored them. She used to never post on his fb page, and now she has several times since this incident... nothing flirty, but kind of like a reminder of 'hey, im still around'.

My thing is, this feels like unfinished business with no closure. She is a family friend, her daughter is his grand neice so she will always be around on family holidays, etc... but he is just chosing to ignore the situation instead of answer her call and say, hey what you did was not appropriate, there is now going to be some awkwardness and discomfort whenver we all are at family get togethers, and what were you thinking? Or even say, hey it will never happen, so dont ask again and dont do that again or we cant be friends at all.

He already said the friendship was ruined, but I just feel like the whole situation is one big question mark. She doesnt know she has done anything wrong, or if she has, she doesnt care and isnt taking the hint. He isnt telling her... and I am just sitting around like WTF? How do I get over this and move forward, because everything is up in the air. Nothing has been resolved.

I trust my bf completely. He has been more open and honest with me that anyone ever has. So because of this alone, should I just let it go, and not worry because I trust him? Or should I say, hey, are you going to take care of this? Are you going to let her know what she did was inappropriate? The event took place 4 days ago... and everyday, I have brought up if he has talked to her yet... I feel like a nag now, but I want to be able to close the door on this and put it behind me.