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What do you want?

koolman
koolman
We hear enough negativity on these boards about what people DON'T want; what ISN'T working, etc.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I want a partner in all things.
I want someone i can trust with anything.
I want a best friend.
I want an amazing bedroom life.
I want acceptance and tollerance.
and most of all
I want love.

did that answer your question?
koolman
koolman
Sure did.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've NEVER had all of these.
koolman
koolman
Me either. Maybe two or three.
koolman
koolman
I guess all we can do is try to BE all of these things, and maybe someone will come along to compliment us. But, I tell ya, life is a struggle sometimes, and we need a "help mate" to soften the blow of stress and tragedy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i know what you mean kool
at present i have a possible someone who has expressed an interest says he has loved me for years and wants to be with me but then he spoke to my father. father dearest told him i had gained weight wich i have. he has backed off. I go up and down in weight every 5 years or so acceptance is imperative in my life. told him if he can't accept that to get lost.
i have no time for idiots
deleted_user
deleted_user
I want my husband to understand me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
communication.....
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
I want my soulmate to be happy!!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
nothing, something, anything, everything and not
koolman
koolman
Mominator: Sorry to hear that the "weight-gain" thing turned this guy off. Couldn't he SEE that though when he looked at you? Sorry to say, but most guys (including myself) are sexually stimulated VISUALLY. It's just the way our brains are cerebrally wired. Of course, once I touch a woman and feel her body temperature go up, that stimulates me sexually too. But looks are, unfortunately, I think the first line of stimulation for most guys.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I want what I currently have...a wife, kids, best friend, great family, awesome support...except I'd like to be able to watch more sports! LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
#12...I envy you!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I want to be able to have kids with my hubs. We may not be able to we are waiting to see what God and the Dr. have to say.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Honestly, right now all I want is Seth.

I'm so lame.
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