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Update on new guy!

OTM64
OTM64

You guys are going to crack up!



So this morning he send me a text saying "I am thinking about you" and I just texted back a little heart emoticon.


He then writes back "Am I just wasting my time here?"  I tried explaining that I was just getting to know him and that I could not jump into a relationship after only meeting someone 2 times.  After going back and forth a few times he wrote this:


"You don't give me anything to look forward to.  I'm a great fucking catch, If you don't think so there are many who will think so.  Maybe we should just forget about this all together, that is what my gut is telling me anyways"


Baaahahahahahahahahahahahaaa!!!!!  I almost fell over!!!


So I politely said "Okay, good luck to you"


Then I blocked him!


Ass clown.





Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
This is scary and why listening to your gut I think is important... Someone that you barely know getting this angry well I am glad you know now... Ass clown is right...Big hug... xo
lb7268
lb7268
Wow I'm proud of you OTM. But please stay no contact with him no matter what. You deserve a man much better than that clown.
rmb
rmb
Good for you to take control of that situation. Good catches don't need to force things. Ass clown, indeed.
Sally_Cinnamon27
Sally_Cinnamon27
Oh no. Lucky escape I reckon X
sunnyjax
sunnyjax
Shocking. So glad you blocked him.
Someone said to me a few days ago that i have an unshakeable belief in humankind. I think maybe you do too. I can see how this was going to go for you and you could not. I am the same. I think part of that is boundaries and trust, self belief. Trusting your own judgement. I struggle to make a decision in the store these days.
Anyway, good for you, he dumped himself, weirdo.
OTM64
OTM64
haha, yes he was starting to sound just like 80's guy, he also said similar things.

I have a date with someone else who lives close by me! yay!
gebaird
gebaird
Nice of him to reveal his true character so quickly. Now you don't have to waste any more effort on that clown! If only all jerks could be so blatant about it :)
Aronia
Aronia
Omg WTF!!!! Psycho
OTM64
OTM64
My date tonight with the man who lives near me went really well. Very nice guy!
Stillpinkpony
Stillpinkpony
My nieces therapist suggested she try a dating site called "bagels and coffee "
OTM64
OTM64
Yeah there are so many dating sites out there. They are pretty much all the same. You will actually see the same people on them as well. But I do know people who actually met their partners this way.
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