Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
To all those seeking advice...
For the convenience of those responding to your posts, please indicate the response you would like to receive. That way, those who reply can tell you exactly what you want to hear, and we will eliminate the possibility of anyone getting upset or offended, and no one will find it necessary to leave this forum.
Thank you.
For the convenience of those responding to your posts, please indicate the response you would like to receive. That way, those who reply can tell you exactly what you want to hear, and we will eliminate the possibility of anyone getting upset or offended, and no one will find it necessary to leave this forum.
Thank you.
....people need to go through this process before they are able to use the feedback effectively to make improvements in their lives....
....Our initial response to feedback may be shock, or denial of the feedback, especially if what we hear is unexpected or contradicts our own views....
....As we realize what the feedback means, shock can turn into anger or anxiety....
.... If feedback indicates the need for change, we may experience a period of resistance....
.....Finally, as we process the feedback, we come to a point of acceptance.....
source: http://www.decision-wise.com/blog/2010/06/04/using-the-sara-model-to-learn-from-360-degree-feedback/
I agree, it's a public forum, and we're here because we like differing viewpoints and opinions!
Well, that is true. We don't UNDERSTAND you, but many have been through similar circumstances and can see things that others may be turning a blind eye to. It really is obnoxious to see people get offended when seeking advice on a public forum.
Thumbs up!