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koolman 03/22/2015

Within our own skulls, chests, souls: Good? Bad? Indifferent? Describe. Discuss.

CopingJust 03/23/2015

Good. Aligned. Congruent - and that is what I strive for - congruence and authenticity in my life.

Aronia 03/23/2015

I find that when I stop analyzing myself, I am happy.

OkieMan 03/23/2015

We're very sexual with each other. We know each other's thoughts. We're soulmates.

MTZ3 03/23/2015

I think there has to be a balance, between relationship with ourselves and relationship with others. Too much of either one, can be problematic (the former-resulting in selfishness, the later-codependency)...I prefer to be somewhere in between...

OldCodger 03/23/2015

There is nothing about me that isn't positive. Now that may sound self absorbing, but it is a fact. I am very happy within my skin, and I have been so since childhood.

koolman 03/24/2015

Interesting replies, peeps.

Coping: Congruent. Good word. In case anyone doesn't know what it means, here is dictionary.com's definition:

adjective
1.
agreeing; accordant; congruous.
2.
Mathematics. of or relating to two numbers related by a congruence.
3.
Geometry. coinciding at all points when superimposed:
congruent triangles.

CopingJust 03/24/2015

Interesting definition Koolman. To me - congruent is the aim. My beliefs match my actions, match my words, match my life. I am who I am. No complaints or apologies.

It's a good life. For me.........

koolman 03/24/2015

Thanks. It's dictionary.com's lol.

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